Everyone has probably heard of the four stages of grief, but I've discovered that the (provisional) are four stages of unemployment. (According to jail) First
phase: The non-probability Do-Do or the non-understanding
is suddenly everything is different, the daily schedule, the view of himself, the place to be is provided for in the world, or has seen the one on the past. It is hard to find in the new routine, which, rightly applications from writing and doing nothing.
Second phase: Disruption feelings
A flood of feelings and thoughts breaks track, because one has time for that now. This can also fix on my last post, which acts as taken from the textbook. You do not really to do with himself, especially as the house cleaning and general Renovierungsrbeiten are done quickly. In general everything is still easily understandable and the body must get used to the fact of inaction.
Third phase: search, find, completing
It goes on so slowly that will change in unemployment as soon nothing why they moved to other duties. Sort photos, CDs, digitize, clean out closets, blog entries write in short everything you always wanted to do really what you never had the time. The main thing one keeps busy. The feeling of having something-Provided-help over the general unsatisfactory situation.
Fourth Phase: New self-reference
It follows the withdrawal in itself. In my case, the retreat into the spiritual work. Can be quite helpful, but how far the lead can, I can not say in my present mood, as I am in the finale of the third phase.
Fifth stage: acceptance (speculative)
It may come the day that you have simply resigned themselves to being unemployed and is resigned to life. Finally, we hear often enough of such cases. Unlike the grief me, this section does not seem particularly desirable. Resignation is probably the worst state that can arrive. I hope that I will not reach him.
So, back to something more or less meaningful thought. Conclusion: The brain still works. Good to know.
